Success - How to Eliminate Self Sabotaging Habits Forever

Unconscious patterns of self sabotage are often seen as significant impediments to one's success.

Why do they happen and how can they be forever released?

Well in short there are a number of reasons for their existence such as:

1. I don't deserve to be successful.

2. I'm afraid of success.

3. I'm afraid I might fail.

4. Fear of making mistakes.

5. Fear of taking full responsibility for one's decisons and actions.

6. Fear that success will change me as a person.

7. Fear that success will cause others to take advantage of me.

And so on.

All of the above beliefs and feelings are pre-programmed into you from early childhood experiences in your family, or through interactions with others whose confidence you choose to accept. This programming is held deep inside of you and lurks there waiting to be called upon whenever you get too close to success.

In other words it is often two steps ahead of you and waiting to head you off at the pass.

What can you do about these programs? Well first it is important to recognize that they are there, that they are unconscious, that they must be made conscious and that by doing so the opportunity to flush them out once and for all exists.

The fact that they cannot be eliminated if you are not consciously aware of them is very important.

Now all such negative programming is sourced from negative memories that feed and anchor them into your being. These negative memories, by definition, have associated with them painful negative emotions which you have chosen to suppress from conscious awareness. They have been suppressed because you have been afraid of re-experiencing these painful feelings.

So what is being said here is that in order to release the negative programming one must first release the fear of feeling the painful feelings associated with them. Here I will take you through this first crucial step in your journey to success.

So we'll begin with the fear of feeling and enduring painful feelings from the past (i.e. things such as sadness, shame, embarrassment, grief, guilt, anger, etc.)

What is the benefit to you of having this fear living inside you?

Well one might say that the fear allows me to supress these painful feelings out of conscious awareness so that,

I won't have to feel them, so that,

I can achieve a sense of relief, inner peace, a sense of calm, safety, security, so that,

I can function effectively in my daily life and achieve success, happiness and fulfillment.

So in summary one has that:

The fear of feeling and enduring painful feelings from the past causes one to feel a sense of relief, inner peace, a sense of calm, safety, security, achieve success, happiness and fulfillment. I call this the Summary Statement.

Now lets look at the other side of the equation, so to speak.

Allow yourself to reconnect with the fear of feeling or enduring painful feelings from the past.

This can be done by allowing yourself to begin to remember some past painful event and then noticing the fear that ensues as a result of attempting to do that.

As you focus primarily on the feelings of fear notice what these feeings are doing to you.

You may notice, if you are astute enough, that the fear has a paralyzing effect, makes you feel numb or confused, makes you indecisive, leads to feelings of anxiety, physical tension, feeling overwhelmed, weighed down, helpless, hopeless, feelings of dread, depletion of energy and motivation and so on.

So is this fear toxic to you? Absolutely yes!

Does this however correspond to the Summary Statement above?

Well if you assess these closely you'll see that they are complete opposites and hence cannot be simultaneously true. So which is the truth?

Clearly the latter so that makes the summary statement false. If you see this and hence would like to have that false Summary Statement cleared from your life simply assert this to yourself as if speaking from your heart.

Next, recognizing that the fear of feeling one's feelings is toxic you may also wish to release this fear by asserting from your heart that this fear also be purged from your life.

Finally, contemplate how you would rather be feeling and experiencing yourself and your life and if this new state is desirable to you also assert this from your heart and then notice how you feel.

You may, if you've followed this closely, be feeling more energized, buoyant, self confident, alive, present, centered and more like your true authentic self at this point.

This is your first step to being able to truly manifest your full potential through a process I call the Mind Resonance Process (MRP). If you'd like to build on this kindly contact me at the email address below.

Nick Arrizza MD is an International Life, Executive, Organizational and Spiritual Tele-Coach, Keynote Speaker, Trainer and Facilitator who lives in Toronto, Canada. He is the CEO and Founder of Arrizza Performance Coaching Inc. and the developer of the powerful Mind Resonance Process (MRP).

A 1 hour free introductory MRP telephone consultation is available upon request. (You will be asked to cover your own long distance telephone charges)

Email: drnick@telecoaching4u.com

How to Achieve Financial Freedom With a Powerful Goal

Some of the most popular search terms on Google are about money and how to get it, often in a short amount of time. At some point in most of our lives we need or want more of it. But if financial freedom is our goal, just how do we make this work for us? How do we motivate ourselves to have the money that we want?

Most coaches and self-help books will teach you that goals need to be specific, measurable, realistic and time-based. This seems easy when it comes to money; we just state exactly how much we want (for example, a yearly or monthly income), how we're going to achieve it and by when we want to have it.

But just how powerful is the goal of a specific income? Is the achievement of money a goal in itself, or is there a more powerful goal we could use to pull ourselves forwards to financial freedom?

A large number of people searching on Google use the term, "I want money". There's nothing wrong with that, but when people start saying "All I want is money", I get a little dubious.

I don't know about you, but the idea of acquiring large amounts of pieces of coloured paper, or black figures on a bank statement does not really inspire me. Not as an ultimate goal.

What we tend to forget is that money itself is not the true motivator. When we say we want money, we are really saying that we want the things that money can buy. What those things are is a matter of personal choice. For some it might be material things such as a new car, a big country house or a yacht. For others it might be the ability to send their kids to university, or take four holidays a year, and for some it might just having a sense of security or freedom, or being able to contribute to charity. Or it might be a mixture of all of these.

These things are far more motivating to us than just having the tool to acquire them. After all, when a builder builds a house, does he only set his mind on acquiring trowels and hammers and all the other tools that are needed, or does he visualise the building that those tools will build? The answer to that is a no-brainer, yet many of us seem to do this when it comes to money.

Money is, in fact, no more than a tool. The builder needs his tools in order to build his house, but acquiring them is just a step in the process. Furthermore, if he only thought of how he was going to acquire the tools, I doubt he would ever be motivated to build a beautiful house.

In order to create the inspiration and motivation that will give us the key to getting the tools (i.e. money), we need to make our goal the thing that those tools will build for us.

Think about the joy and sense of achievement you will feel when you turn the key in the door of your new home, or when you see the delight on your children's faces when you take them to Disneyland, or the sense of freedom when you have a lifestyle where you no longer have to worry about meeting the monthly bills.

These are the goals that will get you out of bed every morning and get you taking the steps to make the money that will bring them to you.

You will, of course, need to be aware of how much money you will need in order to create these goals, but your money goal is now part of your action plan: a stepping stone on the way to your ultimate goal. When you visualise your goal, you will be visualising something real and personal: your house, your family's happiness, your own daily lifestyle in detail, in colour and with all the feelings that go with it.

It is far easier to visualise your goal when it is personal, than it is to visualise an income level. Your goal is now far more meaningful to you, and will set you on course for achieving financial freedom.

Instead of merely chasing money, you are now on a path to the life of your dreams.

Ros is a career life coach and writer, and runs her own online business.

Ros's coaching site is at Career and Home Business Coaching

Find business opportunities at her website at Financial Freedom Online

Business Leads - The Key to Your Online Success

When you are trying to create business for your website, one of the easiest ways to draw in the desired traffic is through business leads. Leads are information that you receive from consumers that are interested in purchasing your products or services. They are called leads for a reason: the information that you receive from these potential customers will lead you directly into their business.

Since the internet has become more popular and much more widespread in the business world, many people have noticed a decrease in the relationships that businesses establish with other businesses and with their customers. If you make a special effort to establish a relationship with your customers, they will be much more responsive to your offers.

So how does one go about establishing this relationship? It is a commonly known fact that people like to talk about themselves. Use this to your advantage. Be the good listener that people always want to talk to, and make a special effort to get to know them. Ask them questions and genuinely listen to the answers. When you show people that you care about what they have to say, they will be much more inclined to do business with you. From these relationships will emerge the business leads you are seeking.

You can also get a good idea of what your target audience wants by talking to potential customers. In conversation, ask them questions about their business, such as their needs and wants and their timelines for their business. Use this information to develop promotions that will help your customers achieve their goals.

Business leads are the key to a successful business, especially online. To increase your success with business leads, establish good relationships with your customers, and be the business they want you to be.

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Your Wealth is in Danger

Nope.

It's not politicians.

Or taxes.

It's not your environment, your family, or your job.

It's not.

"Mike, you're wrong on this one, what is it?"

Amigo, move in a bit closer.

Maybe people will resist the answer.

They will. I can't do anything about that though.

Move in a bit more.

I'll whisper it in case it upsets you.

(SELFISHNESS)

"What?"

I'll say it louder.

***SELFISHNESS

Your SELFISHNESS is your greatest THREAT to your wealth.

I know this first hand because it bit me too. (Ouch)

Every day, I speak to people who are so SELF ABSORBED in their own fears, doubts, and worries that they BURY their talent and leave thousands of people starving for their God given gifts.

The INWARD MIND can't get rich.

It's impossible to create TRUE, GENUINE, and LONG TERM wealth this way.

Start with Proverbs, head towards Orison Swett Marden, drive towards Wallace Wattles, say hello to Napoleon Hill; they're all saying the SAME thing.

***What precedes REAL WEALTH is REAL SERVICE.

Sow sparingly, you reap sparingly. This is one of the secrets of the ages. You know this.

Put your past hurts behind you and START thinking OUTWARD.

Start thinking about who you can encourage today, bless today, and be a friend to.

Do you know what we call people who don't plant any SUCCESS SEEDS?

We call them employees who hate their jobs.

Stop being so impatient and start planting thoughts and seeds of success.

There can be no HARVEST where there's not first SERVICE.

Read this 2 times. Scratch that.

Read this 5 times, at least.

***Become OBSESSIONAL about rendering USEFUL service and today will be the poorest day of the rest of your life.

Many people say, "I'm unselfish", but if they look closer they're not as unselfish as they think.

Let me end with this one more time.

***Become OBSESSIONAL about rendering USEFUL service and today will be the poorest day of the rest of your life.

Mike Litman is the #1 best selling author of Conversations with Millionaires

Easy Fun Ways to Make Money

Making money is one of the things that most people desire for in their life. In fact, even if you happen to be working already and earning your own money, you are probably still thinking of ways on how you can earn more for yourself and for your family.

Making money does not necessarily mean that you are simply being greedy or desiring more than what you deserve or than what you should have. Making money gives you more spending control over the things you desire as well.

Although making money is one of the things that you are focused on, this does not be a very crucial thing for you to do as there are easy fun ways to make money and you can do it right now. You might want to consider listing down all your options when it comes to making money like what types of businesses you can start.

Work around your interests and what you are actually good at. If you are good at writing, take advantage of the different writing jobs you can do. You can even write your own journal and book and try and have it published.

If you are creative and artistic, you might want to consider painting beautiful pictures and selling them or inviting your friends and family for an auction or an event where you can showcase your works of art.

By doing something that you love to do and you know you are good at, you can definitely find it much easier and definitely more fun to make money.

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Make Money on The Internet

One of the most frequently asked questions I receive is can you really make money with internet marketing? All you have to do is browse the internet and you will find places to make money, but they are not always guaranteed. There is now hope. Investing your money in ideas that cannot fall are now here and you don't have to spend all your life's savings.

There are now techniques on the internet that will basically force money into your pocket, ideas that you may not have thought of have been thought of and are now available for you.Since the Internet can be a cold distant marketing tool - a sincere effort needs to be made in building your relationship within your organization. Each person in your organization, is at some level interested in making additional money. Since you see the potential in using the Internet in your business, you probably want to make a lot of money. And there is nothing wrong with that.

Building a business on the Internet can be achieved with hardly any money at all. With an internet marketing business, you can earn some money and get some checks rolling in. Bottom line, an internet business is a great way to generate a second income or a primary money generating system that once set up is completely automated.You can also search through the internet for companies that will pay you a whopping 75% commission by selling their products with little or no risk on your part proving to be the easiest way to make money online.

Start your own internet business now. What's good about your own money making internet business is that it will allow you to earn money at home that will prove to be more profitable in the long run than earning it through your usual routine job.

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Three Revenue Generating Ideas

Many of Google's products have revolutionized the idea of Internet marketing, and AdSense is no exception. If you already have a web site or are serious about putting one together that has good search engine optimization, there are some excellent ways to make money with AdSense. Here are just a couple.

Distribute Free Articles

In order to increase traffic to your AdSense site, your top priority needs to be spreading your URL throughout the Internet. The more people who come across the URL the more chances you're going to have people who will be able to reach you. However, if you don't know how to boost that traffic, one of the easiest ways is with the distribution of articles. Many sites will allow you to submit articles for free. Then these articles can be duplicated for free by other users as long as they include your resource box. Within that resource box, you need to include that URL.

When people follow the URL back to your site, they will also find the AdSense articles and will be more likely to click on them and earn you some much desired revenue. Remember the better your keyword selection and the more targeted your traffic the better the results are likely to be. That's one way to make money with AdSense.

Head to Message Boards

Another good way to generate greater exposure for your site on the Internet is by spending a great deal of time at message boards and in forums. Each time you post in these forums or ask a question, you have the chance to include a signature line that can include almost anything you want, including links. You can even add the link into your reply to another question. For example, if your site is about weddings and you have AdSense ads about wedding stationery, you could answer questions about this topic by directing people back to the site and to the ads. This way to make money with AdSense requires a little bit more work because you need to be in those forums regularly to get your message across but you can always hire a couple of trusted people to assist you in your endeavor.

Work on SEO

Another good way to gain exposure for your site and to increase your ability to make money with AdSense is by improving your search engine optimization. A well optimized site is going to rank higher than the competition thus it will have more traffic. Plus, if you've done a good job with your keyword research that extra traffic is going to be targeted and will be a better return on your investment than others. The bottom line is that SEO is definitely a good way to make money with AdSense.

Bottom Line

If you are interested in being one of thousands of people who have started earning a steady stream of revenue through AdSense advertisements on their site, then the ideas above will definitely help you boost those numbers.

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